4. Simplify

Keep it simple: Is a full meal really necessary?Does all of this seem too overwhelming and complicated? Perhaps it is. But if the goal is to spend some time getting to know one another, do you really need a full meal? You might be better off just offering your guests some snacks. It is usually not too hard to find a kosher brand of chips or pretzels and some soft drinks. If you choose this route, here are some things you should ask your guests about:

• brands of snacks that they recommend and where to find them
• hechshers (kosher certifications) that they do or do not accept
• if there are any issues with the serving bowls, dishes, or utensils that you plan to use

It is worth noting that many foods are fully kosher even if they do not indicate it on the label. Some foods are considered "unprocessed" and are assumed kosher by default. Others are actually kosher supervised, but do not indicate it on the label. Your guests might have information in this area. You should always ask them first.